This Is Very Beneath the Office and He’s not Worthy of the Title

By Gregory Moore

trumpcartoonARLINGTON, Texas — “Why are we having all these people from shithole countries come here?”

Those were the words that President Donald John Trump said today during negotiations about immigration.

That’s not Steve Bannon.

Not Rush Limbaugh.

Hell not even from a Bill O’Reilley or Tucker Carlson.

The Whitehouse didn’t deny the words. As a matter of fact they tried to spin this into just colorful language.

“Certain Washington politicians choose to fight for foreign countries, but President Trump will always fight for the American people,” White House spokesperson Raj Shah said in a statement, adding a list of parameters the president believes should be part of any immigration agreement.

So here’s what is making this interesting. Did you notice that Sarah Huckabee didn’t put out this ridiculous statement?

No, her deputy press secretary did.

Shah’s parents immigrated to this country from Mumbai, India in the late 1970s and he was born in Connecticut.

He is a benefactor of his parents’ immigrating to this country to have a chance at a better life. But I am quite sure he didn’t have a great childhood as he make it out to seem. He is of brown skin…a minority and if it weren’t for his name and his well groomed appearance, he could easily be casted as someone from another country.

A shithole.

And that doesn’t seem to faze him one bit.

But it should.

It should be as offensive to him as it is definitely to me and so many others who read those comments.

It should be highly offensive to even the staunchest of a Trump supporter but I seriously doubt that those people give two shits of a hole about how those words are perceived outside of their world.

But those individuals should be pissed because undoubtedly some may not be living in the best conditions themselves.

And there is the rub for such a staunch Trumponian in Trumpland.

If you are not of good financial means and you are living in what we call trailer parks because you HAVE to because of your financial situation or you are in less than stellar housing, do you know how easy it is for somebody else of higher financial means to call your castle a…SHITHOLE?

And if you don’t think this dude who wants to try and be the President doesn’t know that, you’re living a pipe dream for sure.

Today it’s Rwanda or Zambia or Senegal.

Tomorrow it’s that Podunk shithole over in West Virginia or Kentucky.

Yeah, it’s that easy for this President or anyone who is racist to make that switch on a dime.

What’s even more puzzling to me at 2102 hrs on January 11, 2018, I haven’t seen MAJOR GOP members push back and denounce Shah or this man at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue.

Utah Congresswoman, Mia Love said this: “The President must apologize to both the American people and the nations he so wantonly maligned.”

Sen. Orin Hatch said , “I look forward to getting a more detailed explanation regarding the President’s comments. Part of what makes America so special is that we welcome the best and brightest in the world, regardless of their country of origin.”

Sen. James Lankford was quoted as saying, “If these comments are accurate, they are disappointing. I would not talk about nations like this, because I believe the people of those countries are made in the image of God and have worth and human dignity.”

Sen. Tim Scott responded with the following: “If these comments are the President’s words they are disappointing to say the least. The American family was born from immigrants fleeing persecution and poverty and searching for a better future,” he added. “Our strength lies in our diversity, including those who came here from Africa, the Caribbean and every other corner of the world. To deny these facts would be to ignore the brightest part of our history.”

But that’s about it for the most part. I haven’t seen any of the big wigs of the GOP to come out and denounce these words.

And I don’t expect that to happen tonight.

I don’t expect anyone from the GOP to call homeboy from Queens, NY out on his vulgarity.

I don’t expect anyone to take Shah to task.

Hell I seriously doubt Trumponia citizens to have the balls to realize that this was an embarrassment to this country.

The bottom line is this: this was an embarrassment. Even for this dweeb.

We expect the person at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue to have decorum and human decency. We expect that person to be able to show the best of our great country to the world. We expect that person to not embarrass the shit out of us with dumbass tweets or vulgar statements in mixed company.

And we expect our government leaders to have the balls to denounce such actions soundly; IRREGARDLESS OF THE JERSEY!!

That’s not happening people.

And while so many of us are highly pissed off and embarrassed for the actions of our supposed executive of our government, we keep seeing excuses being made for boorish behavior at home and abroad.

We are stuck with a system where many in this country are turning a blind eye and ear to such actions by our CEO.

And the world is watching.

Boy is it watching.

Bend Over America….Senate Tax Bill Is In

By Gregory Moore

ARLINGTON, Texas – The senate has released their tax bill and the Joint Committee on Taxation has crunched the numbers.

OUCH.

Yeah folks, this is gonna hurt big time.

We are about to be bamboozled into thinking this tax reform and this is a welfare slumber party for the rich and richer while the rest of us are going to be poorer and poorer.

So let me explain real quick.

If you’re the middle class…your BLEEPED.

That’s people who are making between $75k – $500k per year.

Folks that is the NEW middle class.

So let me also just do this and I promise there will be a more in depth blog on the topic.

Go to The Hill’s story at http://thehill.com/policy/finance/360660-tax-cuts-in-senate-bill-would-evaporate-in-a-decade-analysis. You’ll want to click on the analysis link in the story to pull up the JCT tables.

Like I said, I’ll be back, probably over the weekend, after doing some serious crunching of my own numbers.

But from just my cursory glance….OUCHY OUCHY OUCHY….

And nobody in Washington has taken me out to diner??

At The End Of The Day, This Was A Labor Issue…

By Gregory Moore

ARLINGTON, Texas – So news finally came out Sunday night.

Colin Kaepernick was filing a grievance against the NFL for collusion.

For many it was, “it’s about time!!” but for the majority it was, “what?”

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Eric Reid is still kneeling while his former teammate has now filed a grievance on collusion.

But if you really weren’t paying attention to the details, you were caught up in the anthem, police brutality and them damn socks.

But a few started to get whiff of something far greater; a labor issue.

It shouldn’t be hard to fathom here as to why Kaep filed the grievance; it’s week six people and have you looked at these quarterbacks out there?

I’m not going to even go with the top ten or fifteen guys. Let me just give you the guys ranked from #21 – #30 and their qbr ratings from ESPN Stats:
Jacoby Brissett – 48.6
Philip Rivers – 43.6
Derek Carr – 38.6
Jameis Winston – 43.2
Trevor Siemian – 43.8
Blake Bortles – 36.9
Andy Dalton – 39.3
Jay Cutler – 29.1
Brian Hoyer – 26.8
Joe Flacco – 30.6

What was Kaep’s in 2016? 49.5.

Okay seriously, are you trying to tell me that an owner would rather have a dude like Cutler or Bortles?

It’s rhetorical…don’t answer.

THE COLLUSION CASE ISN’T WINNEABLE BUT IT’S A FLASHLIGHT

Look this isn’t rocket science here folks. We all know that there is no way that Kaep could win a collusion case. BUT, what he is doing is shining this bright ass spotlight on an issue that will force the NFL to seriously come to grips with: social pressure.

See, what this case is doing is forcing the NFL to take a good hard look in the mirror and ask itself one question: why is this protest fine and that on isn’t?

What do I mean by protest?

Simple. It’s all about what causes the league deems “worthy”.

Those worthy causes have a monetary value to them.

Breast Cancer Awareness? Check the money.

Domestic Violence Awareness? Yup there’s money.

Salvation Army? Come on you know the deal.

Military recognition? Oh yeah there’s big money with this one.

These and so many other causes get the royal treatment because they are what society loves.

But a non-violent protest against something “sacred” to the league and its fans is a no go.

That’s why there are kneels to this day.

It’s why this whole anthem issue is a hot potato.

Now there is a solution to that issue on the national anthem: give the money back and have the players stay in the locker room.

But the league isn’t about to do that one. They love money far too much.

And it has an identity issue here because this protest isn’t going anywhere.

And neither is this “stench” that maybe some owners have decided to freeze out a decent QB because he decided to make a silent protest.

Eric Reid, his former teammate, said it best in an op/ed he pinned: “It baffles me that our protest is still being misconstrued as disrespectful to the country, flag and military personnel. We chose it because it’s exactly the opposite. It has always been my understanding that the brave men and women who fought and died for our country did so to ensure that we could live in a fair and free society, which includes the right to speak out in protest.”

Look I get it.

A lot of people are saying that these guys shouldn’t be doing it during their “work hours”.

But let me ask you this?

If the owner of the 49ers was okay with this, and all he did was take knee for a few minutes, you can’t tell me that other clubs saw that and said, “oh hell naw. I don’t want that crap in this organization.”

Mind you now, some of these organizations have taken in drug offenders, domestic violence perpetrators and a few “rougher” dudes; if I may use the current POTUS’ lexicon.

And those dudes had jobs or got second, third, twelfth chances.

They say that it takes courage to live in your convictions.

I’m not gonna lie; I don’t know if I could have done what Kaep has done the past several months.

But I definitely admire his stance because in order to affect change, you sometimes have to be that scapegoat.

Can he prove collusion?

Hell I don’t know.

But I do know this…a spotlight is about to be shown in the NFL’s kitchen.

Ya’ll ever see what happens when the light comes out and roaches scatter?

Yeah it’s going to be one of those moments.

And change, in some form, is going to happen.

 

Word Choice My Ass….It Was Chauvinistic

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By Gregory Moore
October 6, 2017

ARLINGTON, TX – So social media is a funny beast. You chime in on a hot topic on somebody’s page or on your own and all of a sudden you get hit with the bullshiggery.

So let me explain this.

Cam Newton is full of bull dong and I’m not even talking about high quality Brahma or Waygu bullshit either.

You all know what happened so why rehash it but here’s the highlight of what happened: Newton said a chauvinistic remark to a female sports reporter.

And what has ensued is this kaleidoscope of comments from people saying he had a right to speak his mind to he is so wrong he should be suspended.

I’m somewhere in the middle on this.

Yes, it’s his first amendment right to be a jackass and he did so.

No he shouldn’t be suspended but he shouldn’t be made a damn martyr either.

So of course I weighed on a few pages and I got hit with this vitriol that I was wrong.

You know what…on those pages, they’re probably right.

But as a former member of the National Association of Black Journalists, a proud alumnus of the Blackathlete Sports Network and a guy who took pride in calling out bullshit when it presented itself, I WASN’T WRONG according to those in the industry.

But see that’s the damn problem.

Society is wrong in accepting this crapola of an apology from him.

At least this apology that he gave.

When you get right down to it, sports fans of all colors should be so pissed off that he truly gets the message of why his apology was a day late and a dollar short.

Anybody who has a moral compass should be “offended’ that we are still dealing with chauvinism in this day and age just like we are dealing with racism, classism and all the other “isms’ that plague our society.

AN APOLOGY IS LIKE A THANK YOU NOTE….

“After careful thought, I understand that my word choice was extremely degrading and disrespectful to women.”

Really?

It took you 24 hours to come to the realization that you were being a dweeb during that press conference the day before?

And thus is why I have a problem with his feigned apology.

It wasn’t contrite.

It wasn’t sincere.

It was a carefully crafted response to an issue that had he really thought about it, he should have come out immediately that day and said, “hey man, I screwed up.”

You see, what so many of the people who are in his corner don’t get is, an apology is like a thank you note. It’s more sincere the more prompt the message is given.

It’s something that parents teach their kids every day.

Hell, Cam himself has two daughters. Do you think he’s teaching them to wait until the next day to apologize for wrong doing?

Hell naw.

But see adults, especially those who have these nice endorsements, play by different rules.

And Cam reached into that PR damage control playbook and pulled out play #22: be contrite after the fact.

And so, when Dannon yanked his endorsement by saying that he will no longer be used in advertising in 2017, he pulled out his smart phone, opened up his twitter account and did that video apology.

Let me tell you all something…..he wasn’t believable.

I’m a pretty good poker player and I could read that tell about 20 seconds into the video.

He was playing his audience.

How? It’s simple.

He didn’t name the reporter he denigrated in front of her colleagues.

A HEARTFELT APOLOGY, LIKE A THANK YOU NOTE, IS PERSONAL

This is why I have a problem in believing that Newton was sincere; he never mentioned Jourdan Rodrigue in his apology.

“To the reporters, to the journalists, to the moms — super moms — to the daughters, the sisters and the women all around the world, I sincerely apologize and hope that you can find the kindness of your heart to forgive me.”

Many are going to think I’m being nit-picky but am I?

I mean if someone offended you and you confronted them, wouldn’t you want an apology that was personal and directed to you?

So how hard is it to put Rodrigue’s name in the damn apology?

I mean heck it’s this simple: “I want to first apologize to Ms. Rodrigue. I was out of line and I apologize for disparaging you yesterday. That is not my character and I hope you give me a second chance. To the reporters, to the journalists, to the moms — super moms — to the daughters, the sisters and the women all around the world, I sincerely apologize and hope that you can find the kindness of your heart to forgive me.”

See….it’s that darn easy.

I didn’t change the structure but I sure as hell made it seem a lot more personal than what he did.

And I’m not saying that he had to do it in that fashion.

How about a one on one apology to the side?

BUT THERE’S AN ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM….

Look, apology aside, there’s an elephant in the room.

What Cam did was akin to what has been done in locker rooms the moment news agencies started having women cover sports.

This shit isn’t new people.

And it isn’t going away.

Sexist remarks have no place in the workplace and if there is one place where this can be overcome, it is sports.

Sports is that great equalizer in our society but it is only as good as it can be when ordinary citizens call BS when it’s BS.

What Cam said was sexist and chauvinistic. It is not that much different than when then candidate Donald Trump talked about grabbing women by their genitals and forcing himself on them because he could.

Wrong is wrong people.

And while Cam isn’t running for public office, he is in the public eye.

He’s supposed to be a role model and he says he wants to be that in his own words.

“To the young people who see this, I hope that you learn something from this as well. Don’t be like me; be better than me.”

He’s right. Role models want that to be the outcome.

And hopefully he’s learned a lesson.

But let’s not sugar coat this one bit.

His choice of words to Ms. Rodrigue was wrong and it cost him sponsors.

But his choice of words not having given a “personal” apology were equally wrong because the only way to stop sexism and chauvinism is to own up that it exists.

Look I’m not beating up on Cam because he’s a black athlete.

Yeah. I got that nonsense too from a bunch of dribble hounds.

But I am beating him up for not being man enough apologize sooner.

What I am beating him up about though is that his words need to mirror his actions.

When I hurt someone, I apologize immediately to them.

When Ms. Rodrigue confronted him the other day about his choice of words, she was doing because they were chauvinistic.

Cam should have recognized that immediately.

And he should have apologized with a better choice of words.

That’s what grown men do.

We hold each other accountable when we’re wrong.

And if that, holding another man accountable, is not sitting well with some folks, then we have a far bigger problem than a football player making a dumb ass comment.

Gregory Moore covered collegiate and professional sports for over 20 years and appeared on national programs for such outlets like ESPN, Fox Sports Radio and The Sporting News.

He’ll Never Understand…So Why Bother?

So it’s been awhile since I’ve pontificated on my blog. Funny how an art just “leaves” when you don’t do it often enough.
But I’ll save that for another day.
Right now, I need to just get some thoughts out…on Donald J. Trump.
I’m not afraid to admit it….I’ve never liked DJT.
Not in the 1980s (late 80s mind you).
Not in the 90s…or the 00s.
Really didn’t watch The Apprentice and the one time he was on one of my favorite shows from the History Channel, it was the last segment.
I didn’t like him when he started pushing the birther movement.
Didn’t like him then…and I don’t like him now.
He’s a big mouth.
A show boat….a narcissist.
A womanizer.
A borderline bigot of all flavors.
And he’s the President of the United States.
Fine.
I have no problem accepting that because it’s our election process and he won; fair and square.
But that doesn’t mean I have to accept the fact that he is actually good for this country.
I am just going to refuse to do that one.
Why?
Because he’s everything I just said above and more.
DJT is all about himself. Seriously; he is definitely all about himself.
Rarely do you see him put others in front of him on anything of importance unless it feeds his ego.
Don’t believe me?
Then let’s go no further than last night’s little stomp rally at the Jamboree.
Yeah you read right…the Boy Scouts Jamboree.
Instead of DJT going out there, with Rick Perry aka Gov. Good Hair as he is known in these parts, and telling some 30,000 impressionable young men why it is important to live up to the BSA oath, he made a political speech out of it.
Why?
Who was that audience for?
And the speech was condescending to a former Scout member (Ole Barry).
It was degrading to Tom Price.
Why are those two a part of your jamboree speech?
And if you listen to it or read it, that speech should piss you off as a “stock holder” of this company we call America.
But for many, they’re fine with it.
For some, it’s okay….he’s speaking truth to power.
Okay fine. I’ll let the 40 percenters have their cake but I’m not eating any of it.
The way DJT acted yesterday in West Virginia was appalling to me; and I’m not one easily appalled.
And while I should be incensed that others don’t seem to share my anger at a man who continually sets a low standard being POTUS, I’m not.
I’ve gotten over that disappointment a long time ago.
You see, maybe it’s just me.
Maybe I’m the lone idiot who thinks he sees that the problem is.
What’s the problem?
Donald J. Trump doesn’t give a rat’s ass about this country or how we are perceived by others.
That’s the problem.
For DJT, it’s all about the big win. He’s the big chief now at 1600 Penn and by golly he gonna “right” the ship that he saw as the Titanic hitting that iceberg.
But in reality, with this latest speech now in the damn archives, all he did was show the world why he’s Mr. Petty; and no, I’m not talking about being a relative to Kyle or Richard either.
For me, I understand why he does the things he does because he fits so many classic psychological profiles that you read about.
To me, being POTUS means you are even keeled in public.
It means that why you may disagree with your political opponents, you don’t forget that you are all still on the same team; Team America.
And that’s the sad thing.
I don’t think DJT understands that.
John McCain does.
All the POTUS’ before DJT do.
I bet those 30,000 boy scouts last night do.
See to make America great again, you have to first not be so quick to beat up on people because they piss you off.
You have to be willing to compromise where it hurts knowing that your sacrifice is to help others down the road.
That trying to re-write history because you have ill will towards a predecessor is not how things are done.
And I say about the sentence above because DJT is going to need President Obama, Bush and Clinton LONG before they need him.
He’s never been POTUS; they have. All three have had two terms.
He may be lucky getting out of this first one and if he makes it to the second term, then somebody got in his ear.
But I just don’t see it.
I don’t see DJT understanding that being pig headed because that’s how you ran your empire is going to get you anywhere.
I don’t see him changing and why should I even begin hoping that for the betterment of this country he would.
He’s not.
He won’t.
He doesn’t care.
And you know what? I’m okay with it.
Because what that tells me is that come 2020, I need to find somebody who ISN’T that guy.
Maybe that’s how I get my understanding.

 

If the Cavs Lose, the Loss is Squarely King James’ Fault

By Gregory Moore

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LeBron James needs to ball out or else it’s lights out.

DALLAS, Texas — You know what’s troubling watching this year’s NBA Finals?

Believing in all the hoopla that finally LeBron James, the prodigal son, the ‘chosen’ one, will bring a title back to “the Land” after some four decades.

It’s hard to have any faith in him or the Cleveland Cavaliers because there isn’t a fire in the belly to get it done.

Yeah, sure. We’ve seen flashes of what this team could be but after Friday night’s loss, how can anyone with a straight face say, “Oh man, relax. They gonna win the next three straight. Watch.”

Watch? Watch what? An ass whooping that will be one of the most virally seen events in the current space/time continuum?

Come on man. Seriously?

Let’s just look at why the narrative on James right now is about being a talker and not a doer when it comes to winning titles.

Cavs 2.0 Reboot

I hate to say it but can anyone tell me what’s the difference between the Cavs of 2007 and the past two renditions over the last two years?

The knock then on James was that he didn’t have a supporting cast to get the job done. That’s ironic because that is the EXACT same narrative in 2016.

Let’s be frank and earnest about this current team. They aren’t good enough to beat the Golden State Warriors and sadly, they never were.

Look at Friday’s game and you tell me. What did you see in that game that showed Cavs nation that this team can go into Oracle Arena and win Monday’s game and then turn around and win a pivotal home game six on their own floor?

Nothing.

The only thing that’s a little different is that they have been able to hang a few quarters here and there but in this current series, they simply are not stringing quarters together to stop their opponent.

ROLE PLAYERS JUST A BUNCH OF DUDES

Let’s do another comparison.

When LeBron was in Miami, he had guys who could be role players and they were good at their jobs.

Mike Miller, Jerome James, Udonis Haslim, and Mario Chalmers.

Those guys knew what they needed to do to help win games.

Throw in a guy like Ray Allen and what you had was a bench that knew what it took to win big games on the biggest stage.

When you coupled that with DeWayne Wade and Chris Bosh, James could be at his best because he had guys he could trust.

It was a team that was able to win fifty percent of their NBA Finals appearances.

Now let’s fast forward to last year for a minute.

Where was that supporting cast?

Kevin Love and Kyrie Irving were injured last year so they can’t be held accountable for that team’s losses to the Warriors.

But the guys that were there, Iman Shumpart, JR Smith, Tristian Thompson and others were there and they know that they needed to step their games up this year.

And through the Eastern Conference for this year, those games were elevated.

But this is the Finals man and what you did two weeks ago don’t work on this stage.

Let me now throw Love and Irving into this analysis.

Where are they on a consistent basis?

Well Love is too busy counting his discounted nuggets because even coming off the bench he hasn’t been this “dominant” player he was in Minnesota; and while Irving is very spotty but at least he’s trying to be a second scoring threat.

That group of role players aren’t of the same talent as what the Heat had. Two totally different groups of role players; two totally different mindsets on how to back up the star player.

But James picked this team; whether he wants to own up to it or not. It was his influence that placed these pieces on the roster. He wanted these guys.

Now he’s got them and these hand picked players are not living up to the potential of being role players that win titles.

They aren’t the guys like were with Miami.

They aren’t the guys that five time champion Spurs had during their run.

Or what Kobe had during his or what Michael had during his run.

They are not were close to that caliber and they may never be those kind of guys.

The King Needs to Accept Blame

At the end of the day, James needs to accept responsibility for not being the leader that he thinks he should be for this team.

When James was assertive in game three, we all saw a different team; a different mindset. The team responded by following their leader.

He gave orders.

He moved players into winning positions.

He led them to the win.

Game four? Yeah that was very reminiscent of what he looked like against the Dallas Mavericks in 2011.

He didn’t take any shots that were meaningful.

He didn’t assert himself when his team needed him to be assertive.

He simply was not the guy to get the job done.

And now this team is looking at trying to do something they simply can’t do; win.

Can this be accomplished? Can the Cavs win the next three games?

Right now, whether James and his team likes it or not, the only way to win a game in this series is to ball all the way out.

Whatever they did in game three, the should have been doing it in game four and they will need to do it in games five, six and seven.

Yet unlike what Golden State did against the Oklahoma City Thunder, I don’t see the Cavs having that kind of grit.

And it’s that lack of confidence that has me saying the following: if the Cavs lose the series, it’s all on James.

After all, who else should get the blame when your reputation is about performing on the biggest stage in the league?

Gregory Moore is a former sports columnist for several local, regional and national media outlets. He covered the NBA and the San Antonio Spurs from 1993 to 2010. He is now an IT virtualization engineer/architect in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area.

If I had a child wanting to go to Baylor, I’d just tell them no

DALLAS, Texas – We all are very aware of the fact that Baylor University is in the limelight again and has been for almost a year now.

We are all also acutely aware that Baylor’s head football coach, Art Briles, is on the hot seat from outside sources.

But what we don’t know is whether Briles, BU President Ken Starr, the board of trustees and other higher ups understand why parents could be very concerned about a culture at a Baptist school and at least sitting over here, I don’t think those afore mentioned really care what those parents think right now.

Let’s face it. If you’re a parent who has a child wanting to go to Baylor, would you let him or her go right now? I mean at a cost of almost $40,000 in tuition and fees per year, what as you as a parent getting as assurance that your child is going to be protected from a sexual predator?

Now I know that may seem to be a stretch for some in my assumption but is it unreasonable?

Young men and women on college campuses are going to come across these sort of societal ills; that’s just a part of our society now. But you, as a parent, are hoping that should a prominent student be accused of such a heinous crime, that the university take the appropriate measures and ensures that the due process of justice is done so that the rest of the student body feels protected.

In Baylor’s case, I just don’t see that happening.

I don’t see Briles taking this issue head on like he would ask his players to do in a tackling drill.

I don’t see Starr understanding just how damaging the Outside the Lines report is to the internal audit that is going on.

Where is the accountability of those school officials whose tasks and/or duties as authority figures to not only report any claim of sexual misconduct but to ensure that a transparent investigation is done on all sides?

Where was any coach or athletic administrator when the allegations of misconduct first rang out from the campus and why wasn’t a full court press put on a year ago to not only remove any person who is being investigated but also to protect the victims and ensure their rights as students according to the Baylor code of ethics?

Forget about Title IX ramifications; how about the ramifications of students who are victims basically getting victimized by not only their attacker but by the very school and governance system that they and/or their parents put their faith in?

Where is that reassurance that DESPITE the accuser being a star athlete, he or she is not above anyone and they are actually in a weaker position because they do represent the school?

I’ll tell you where…..Never Never land. That’s where.

Parents now have to add to their plate of worry schools that are in the news for the wrong reasons.

Twenty to thirty years ago, parents had to worry about kids experimenting with drugs, goofing off at college, and just doing some things that were perceived to be a “normal” experience.

Today, the very parents who made their parents worry about them twenty to thirty years ago now have to worry about whether or not their child will not be a victim of a sexual crime on campus.

I can’t imagine how those parents must feel who are either Baylor alum or who have kids going to the school. I’m sure it’s just sickening to read about or hear about it on the news.

But if I were a parent who had a son or daughter who wanted to go to Baylor, I’d have no problem telling that son or daughter they weren’t going to go.

It’s not that I wouldn’t be able to trust my child; I just couldn’t trust Baylor or its current administrators.

The administration at Baylor needs to understand that there are parents who are concerned and if they can’t clean up a program that brings in millions, then those parents have a right to guide their children to a school that puts character and student safety above wins and losses.

It may not be realistic as a parent, but that’s closer to a reality for students than having a system just flat out ignores your claim of being a victim on campus because you don’t score on the field.

Why did it take so long…….

DALLAS, Texas — So I am sure everyone has either read, seen and/or heard South Carolina’s state representative Jenny Horne’s impassioned speech as why the “Stars and Bars” needed to be removed from the South Carolina state capitol grounds. If you haven’t, just take a look at the CNN story that I posted here.

Ever since the Charleston, S.C. tragedy where nine African Americans lost their lives behind a sensless shooting of a young man who has a warped sense of reality, there has been a conversation about racism, the meaning of this particular flag and a near “uprising” of African American ‘leaders’ wanting something to be done.

Now I put the word “leaders” in quotes for a reason and that reason is simple: this debate has been going on for as long as many of us can remember and nothing was done then but now it seems that this is the time to do it now.

Don’t get me wrong here. It has been a far too long of a period for this symbol of hatred be flown on a public ground where taxpayers were footing the bill for the landscaping but as Rep. Horne put it, “I cannot believe that we do not have the heart in this body to do something meaningful, such as take a symbol of hate off these grounds on Friday.”

She and so many others are right: it took a tragedy like this to shake this country to its core foundation to move in a direction that should have happened years and years ago.

But I do have a fundamental problem when people, especially many in the Black community, believe that their voice has been speaking out on this issue for decades.

Look that voice probably has been speaking out for years but it only got louder when something like this type of shooting happened or when a man is dragged behind a pick up or when a youth is killed on a sidewalk near his dad’s home. When these incidents don’t happen or are brought to the forefront thanks to social media, where are these same voices? Are they being heard just as loud?

Maybe they have…maybe they haven’t.

With all of that said, I just have one final question: why did it take so long for the people of South Carolina realize that this particular flag bore no honor (as it was probably intended) but defined two factions of what still exists today: racism is real.

And if took a shooting of this magnitude to shake a state’s foundation about its heritage, how long will be when other forms of racial injustice fall?

One may never know.

Hopefully it won’t take another tragedy such as what happened in Charleston, S.C. to remind us that this country has so far to go.

Tis the season to be grateful…not spiteful

A belated Hanukkah celebration to my friends of the the Jewish faith, Merry Christmas to all of my Christian friends and happy holidays to everyone else out in the world.

Today, December 25, 2014 is a day that we all recognize for its importance but with so many local, regional, national and international issues going on around the world, I wanted to take a little bit of time to impart the importance of being thankful in 2014.

For many of us, we have been blessed and gifted to take care of our families in ways that were unfathomable even a year ago YET we continue to whine, cry ad complain about why this political figure, party or group has not done ‘right by us’. An old family friend once told me that if you rely on politicians to make your life better, you will be forever poor and unhappy.

I’m sure that doesn’t sound right to many but there is a profound truth in that statement. Why put all of your faith in the hands of a few elected officials that have to cater to the collective thousands called ‘constituents’?

So with that being said, I wanted to just through out what I believe, in 2014, this day should be all about….

REFLECTION: 365 days ago, what were you doing? Did you plan your year out to see if you reached goals for 2014? When I look back on my last ‘year’, a number of things got accomplished for me personally and I magnify God’s name for getting me through so many of them. Have you reflected and thanked Him for all you have accomplished this year?

GRATEFULNESS: As our fore fathers and mothers, basically the older generation, would say, “I thank God I am on top soil this morning.” There is no bigger truth than what is said there as with being able to just breathe in the air, drink our favorite hot beverage and get out there ad conquer what is in our ‘world’. Have you been grateful this past year for the ability to even ‘complain’?

BEING A BLESSING TO OTHERS: Despite everything that is going on in your life, have you been a blessing to others? I ask that question because sometimes we all get caught up in our own circumstances and we forget about others who we know may need that word of encouragement, that little extra push to get over the hump, or even opening the door for them to just walk through. I know I can be a better friend to those who reach out to me but I will always strive to be there for them should that time arise.

REMEMBER THAT SPITEFULNESS IS NOT WHO WE ARE: Wishing ill will on others, wanting others to feel pain or suffering, that is not who we should be. It is not who i want to aspire to be, that’s for sure. Are there circumstances where Man’s law comes into play? Sure there is but as what is written in the Bible, we must be able to discern ourselves and distinguish what is the importance for the better good. We cannot let the actions of a few bad apples continue to overshadow the common good others continue to do each day. We cannot continue to harp on the inadequacies of a system in our society that was never perfect in the beginning. Remember, anything that man puts together is ‘flawed’; always has been…always will be. What we do is work to improve and repair the imperfections of these systems so that we can have a society that is closer to equality than what it was in the past.

This year, let’s all make it a priority to be grateful for what we have in our lives. Let’s go out and try to be that blessing to others who need it and instead of looking for harm to befall upon others, lets look to ensure that a social awareness of self worth is constantly brought about and an education on the right and wrong paths continues to come forth in those communities who are struggling.

2014 was a great year and 2015 will be an even better one if we all just remember to be “grateful” and push forth a sense of accomplishment for others to aspire to.

Happy Holidays everyone…….

There is no place for this in ‘our’ culture

It’s been a long time that I’ve actually done any blogging. As a matter of fact, my old blog, http://noirwords.wordpress.com/author/nbascribe/, is still out there even though it’s inactive.

But I wanted to start putting some thoughts back down on paper because there has been this climate of hate, irresponsibility and just down right ‘stupidity’ in our culture that I just can’t get my hands around. And in this case, this particular topic involves sports and the need of entitlement to play but not deal with the consequences of one’s actions.

I know everyone has seen the video of Ray Rice and Janay Palmer Rice. And i know that at least in social media, we all have been talking about Adrian Peterson, Greg Hardy and other NFL players who have been in the news as well. We’ve all probably even talked about the Atlanta Hawks situation. In any case, there are some things I need to put down and I’m sure not everyone is going to agree but I need to say them.

Let me begin with how the NFL has botched violence off the field…….

There is no way to say that Peterson made a mistake in this issue. Spanking is one thing but when marks are left, blood is spilt, there is a huge problem and NO parent should be saying, “it’s okay…it’s how I became who I am”.

When you have Hannah Storm and Chris Carter speaking out about how the NFL got it wrong, there is a definitely a problem.

Yes, I firmly believe that the NFL effed this up so bad that I wouldn’t trust them to open the door for me (no pun intended). I don’t believe Roger Goodell when he says that the league hasn’t seen the most recent footage because there is no inconceivable way that anyone in New York can tell any of us that it wasn’t possible.

“You are the NFL, yes it is very possible to have that footage!!”

And then I look at the owners of the 32 teams and how they are willing to let criminals play and look the other way. And one owner who I thought would have taken the lead in this domestic violence topic would be Jerry Richardson.

In case you don’t understand why I thought Richardson would be at the forefront, think of the Carolina Panthers’ biggest blemish in franchise history; the murder of Cherica Adams by former WR Rae Carruth. And if you really don’t get where I am coming from, maybe seeing the 12-year-old son that Carruth tried to kill as well will help you understand.

If anyone should have zero tolerance and not wanting his franchise tarnished it should be Richardson and yet it was only this morning that the team decided to deactivate Greg Hardy.

And that’s what I don’t get. This isn’t the same case as what Ray McDonald is going through.

Hardy went through the judicial system and he was convicted of the crime. The only reason why he is appealing is because he didn’t like the verdict.

And just like Ray Rice was ultimately suspended by the league, Richardson should have directed his general manager to suspend Hardy until the appeal is finalized.

And while the Minnesota Vikings may have ‘gotten’ it right but this is a knee jerk response.

Look, there is no place for abuse of any kind in our culture.

Grown men shouldn’t be telling other grown men how to be…well….grown ass men.

If the league can’t get this right, then we, as fans, need to help them get it right. I’m not talking about just boycotting or writing letters; it takes drastic measures by fans to make sure that a sports league understands that just because you are entertainment, that doesn’t mean we are in a reality show.

Let’s hope the NFL gets this finally right so that we get out of this dark place.